Coaching in the era of changes

I have recently seen among my colleagues a certain increase in interest for coaching; and generally, programs which are developed to enhance coaching skills are more popular. And yet, the interest is not directly proportional to the willingness to apply such skills.

How do you assess your coaching mindset? Or simpler: how can you be present, mindful, aware?

From my perspective, having a “coaching” mindset means to have a growth mindset, good will and a pinch of bravery. In business, we are facing difficulties that we haven’t experienced for long time, and it seems very hard to keep up the motivation of our colleagues: people are angry and disappointed and, let’s not deny the truth, the decision making of companies on this matter has been often poor. But this should not give a reason to give up.

In his work ‘Coaching for Performance’, John Whitmore (1937-2017) theorized that “coaches are midwives at the birth of a new social order, one in which compassion for all people and caring for all of nature and our only home form the core theme“. Before him, only Socrates (IV century BC), the Greek philosopher, proposed a similar vision. Alas, millennia have passed, and I do not see this vision realized yet: although corporate and startup companies are more and more oriented to coaching, such tendencies often looks like fried air.

“We may not be able to stabilize the economy, but we can find personal stability within economic instability”.

Sir John Whitmore

Do not get me wrong: this doesn’t come from the organizations alone, but from each of their essential parts: people. Individuals do have hard time to understand that the era of stability ended, leaving space to an epoch of continuous transformations. If the natural human behavior is to be accustomed with habits, then mankind might be in need to rework that aspect, because the one thing that is stable, as of now, is the dynamics of changes itself. The resistance, together with lack of resiliency, is the limit to adaptation within many of us. No change can be realized effectively if doesn’t first happen within ourselves, with both mind and heart.

Coaches are there out to help, but out of their support and their skills, it is up to each of us to have the right mindset and move forward. Since “the more relevant point for coaches now is how much they need to know about wider issues and what they do with that knowledge“, what coaches needs to do now is to lead the transformation, support the assessment of strategical skills and, at the same time, encourage people to embrace the reality.

If we do not like something, we can decide whether to complain about it, or change it. Now, here is where the coaching mindset comes handy: people have often need to be listened but hardly they decide to actively play a role. Coaching should be a lever to the motivation where power management failed us – and it did, given the circumstances. Even if they seek for advice, the best option may be within themselves.

You don’t need to be a certified coach to do that. Everything start from the simplest: and so, let’s simply try to be available to listen and understand, because your role is to clear the path where thoughts aren’t organized yet. When you are looking for a change, make it clear within yourself and give a focus on the otherwise blurred picture. Coaching (and self-coaching) works like with muscles: it takes time and practice, but your dedication will bring results.

This article was originally published on LinkedIn.

Published by Andrea Paviglianiti

I am a Development Coach, Blogger & Martial Artist with an incredible passion for learning. For all my life I have been fascinated by the way we assimilate information and put to use with creativity and focus, and I always thought I am very good at that. I became a Coach because it means helping people to improve their way to live. I use such skills also to help organization shift mindsets and grow. The contents of my blog space from critical thinking, to meta-learning to emotional intelligence. Follow me to receive updates about my latest articles and free content!

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